Love and Concern...
By ArshiHamesha
"There is a primal reassurance in being touched, in knowing that someone else, someone close to you, wants to be touching you. There is a bone-deep security that goes with the brush of a human hand, a silent, reflex-level affirmation that someone is near, that someone cares."
Jim Butcher, White Night
Arnav and Khushi who always there for each other besides keeping their anger,irritations, and frustrations within.If he puts her in misery for breaking his shell and having the guts to make him feel things which he was very much unaware of and banned by his dominant brain...Then she was playing innocent pranks as her revenge towards him which ends up most of the time bringing these two nut-heads together more than ever.Her prank to make him say the truth acted as a boomerang for her and she felt her self centred act could have severe consequences.It is reminding me of the day when he sent her to the guest house and ended up strangled trying to clear his side which she never gave him chance to do so and threatened him leaving for Lukhnow for Hamesha...That day he did it out of irritation because she did break in his shell and stirred his heart with warm feelings from which he was running for a long time but as Payal said "kya bigada hai isne apka..."[what did she do to you?] and made him realize it's not her fault if he is feeling all these desires.
Today Khushi is realizing the same after Anjali's advice,it's not his fault and he is the way he is, alone and abandoned by his own feelings.Her care was genuine but Arnav was seeing it as a fake and irritable prank till she threatened him for telling Anjali .She casts her full right of being his wife today ,"humain karne dijiye..."[Let me do it] just like he told her"tumhain mujhe jawab daina hoga kyuonke tum meri patni ho.."[you have to answer me because you are my wife.] Her two hands are tucking him with her warmth but he is placing his hand of trust over her which a couple of seconds Anjali did on her too while leaving her in charge of Chote's care ."Don't worry everything will be fine " but before leaving she did give her a cue with her looks "don't stretch too much" meaning don't go so far with this care which makes him step back and that's what makes her stop her pranks and irritable manner and she will find the other way around to reach him.
She did have experienced his care for her from the beginning, saving her in the Parking Lot to GH, in Nainital and during Payesh wedding and he knows very well her sweet nature of concerns about him too, from feeding him Jalaibi to worrying for taking wrong meds. They both can go to any length for each other without realizing that they can't breath without each other.Here comes Anjali's words [epi 104 near Rangoli]"agar unki zindagi main dukh aye tou kuch bhi karke who door kar do..." [you want to remove any suffering from your partner no matter what] They both can't see each other in pain and distress and besides the odds, they find solace in each other by buffing the fact that they are each other's needs and they are the only ones who can fulfil each other's needs too.
"Indeed Love is caring for the one you are angry with is really a TRUE Love..."But still, these two need to understand layers of it by peeling the layers of ambiguous thoughts and by removing these self-created walls of Ego and Pride.
"It is the time you have wasted for your rose that makes your rose so important." Antoine de Saint-Exupry, The Little Prince
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